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  • the other day while at work, we had spoke on the phone before, but had never met him, so he came through to check on the workers, and the first thing he says to me is "Oh you hurt my feelings, you should have called ME for extra hours, not the other manager"..so I tell him:Well its because I don;t have your number, and he hands me his card, and tells me to call him, and we talk a little bit, and during the whole time, hes smiling, and laughing. So fast forward today, my co-worker tells me"Oh your friend is outside" meaning the manager..and he goes on to tell me that the manager was acting really nervous and weird, and told he did not want to come inside because he had to go,.....so I'm a little confused, and I feel bad, because I'm wondering if I did something or is it him, I feel like hes repulsed by me, or maybe the opposite.


  • he sounds like a sleaze bag honey


  • Don't waste years of your life worrying about what people mean by their actions or what they think of you. Only put energy into people who are clear with their communications. Whenever it seems like something is funny, it probably is and not worth your confusion. It sounds to me like he's hitting on you, and in which case not professional. He's possibly playing mind games, which is another reason not to waste time on people who are sending mixed signals.


  • maybe you had a doodie smell on you


  • You sound really young.. what ever this is.. it's the guys issues not yours. He sounds like a sleezebag.. I am with the poster who said that..


  • i think he likes you. smiling and laughing while talking are positive signs. mayb he did need to leave







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